No doubt the term Electrosex brings up mixed emotions. On the one hand, we have the term sex—a fantastic and highly pleasurable activity. But on the other hand, we have the term electro.
Yes, electro, as in electricity.
Electrosex is all about using electricity for pleasure. It is a kinky activity that has its practitioners passing electrical currents through their genitals in order to induce an orgasm.
While the hair probably just stood up on the back of your neck at the thought of that, hear me out.
Many years ago, when I first read about orgasm denial, my initial reaction was to furrow my brow and mutter “Okay … but why?”. Initially, I could not relate, I couldn’t get my head around why anyone would purposely not orgasm or be so cruel as to not allow their partner to come!
I was raised by a generation of women who asserted sexual liberation and autonomy in the social and political movements of the 60s and 70s. They had burned their bras in revolt and uprising against the systems and beliefs that kept people, especially women, small and quiet. The same systems and beliefs that expected women to not only barely participate in their own sexuality, but to prioritise their (mostly male) partners’ pleasure over their own. By the time I was of the age that I was having sex and orgasms. It had been well and truly ingrained in me that I, and I alone, was responsible for my orgasm. It was mine to have or not, to share or conceal, and mine to revel in. The idea that after all that had transpired historically, that I, or anyone of any gender, might give up this intimate pleasure to another seemed ludicrous! Until I tried it.
This is my story, how I became a kept woman, not in the traditional sense of the phrase, but owned and controlled in the most beautiful way. I do not want to sound weak or pathetic and I definitely am not looking for sympathy. I am a highly educated woman with several qualifications in economics who chose willingly and happily to surrender body and mind to my mistress.
Six years ago, after a very successful internship, I secured a very sought after and well-paid position in a family run business, I was very proud of my achievement and worked diligently with the aim of moving on and taking my career further. This was until I met someone who would change my world.
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We are delighted to announce the newest section of erotic delights at FrolicMe! Introducing our new Audio Porn page, for those wonderful moments when you fancy some aural pleasure.
Popping in your earphones and settling in for an auditory treat is a wonderful way to indulge in sexy stories. Nobody knows what sweet seduction is going on in your ears, but as you carry on your daily life, a whole world of erotica surrounds and consumes you, teasing you with delicious tales and sultry voices.
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Menopause and Perimenopause are tricky times in a woman’s life. As a fifty-year-old woman going through it, I totally understand why it used to be called ‘The Change’ years ago. It feels as if your body is waging war on you. Interrupted sleep, hot bits that used to be cool, dry bits that used to be wet. The worst of it all, a foggy mind and moods that fluctuate so quickly that you’d actually be quite concerned about all of it. If you could, in fact, be bothered to muster up any energy…
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There’s been some discussion recently about scheduling sex and if that works. Does it just ruin the spontaneity? Or does it give time to plan, the mental foreplay adding to the spice earlier on?
One area that scheduling time for and planning ahead is a great idea is anal sex. It does require some preparation especially if you haven’t tried before or only do it occasionally. To know when it might be in store can really build up the excitement of the moment.
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Erotica is one of the most underrated genres in literature. It is often scorned, left out of literary prizes, and often not seen as a true intellectual storytelling platform.
Well, I’m here to say that in my opinion erotica is one of the most important genres in literature. You can explore characters through their internal sexual dialogue in ways no other genres can touch.
The importance of erotica is that it can deal with the heaviest of emotions and bring them to the forefront of the psyche. It can help to unravel the complexities of being human with all its nuances and depths.
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